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Feminist Friday – Ani DiFranco and the ERA

I’m not sure there’s a single song in the canon of Ani DiFranco’s work that doesn’t send a chill up my spine, put goosebumps on my arm, or send my fists up into the air in a gesture of ‘fuck yeah’ solidarity. I’m a fan girl. A total, and complete, unabashed fan girl. She’s got a new album coming out January 17, 2012 and I’m already biting my nails in anticipation.

And on this new album is a song about the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA). The ERA, authored in 1923 by Alice Paul (who was a badass women’s advocate), says very simply that,

Equality of rights under the law shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any State on account of sex. 

Shorter version: People of any sex should be Constitutionally guaranteed equal rights. A no brainer, right? Yeah, well, the ERA was introduced in every session of Congress between 1923 and 1970, and essentially went nowhere. Finally, in 1972 the proposed 27th Amendment to the Constitution (a different 27th Amendment has since been ratified) passed Congress and went to the states for ratification. States had 7 years to ratify the amendment, and it couldn’t be done. So again, the ERA has been introduced in every session of Congress since 1982 to no avail. It’s 2011 and equality for women is not guaranteed by federal law.

Paul, in closing remarks made in Seneca Falls in 1923 at a celebration honoring the 75th anniversary of the Seneca Falls convention of 1848, said,

“We shall not be safe until the principle of equal rights is written into the framework of our government.”

(Insert a fuck yeah of solidarity.)

And in 2011, this is what Ani has to say about it.

wouldn’t it be nice if
we had an amendment
to give civil rights to

I know what you’re thinking
that’s just redundant
chicks got it good now
they can almost be president
but it’s worker against worker
time and time again
’cause the rich use certain issues as a tool
and when I said we need the ERA it ain’t cause I’m a fool
it’s cause without it nobody can get away
with anything cool

we gotta come down abortion
put it down in the books for good
as central to the civil rights of women…and if you don’t like abortion
don’t have an abortion
teach your children
how they can avoid them
but don’t treat all women
like they are your children…

your body is your only true dominion…

in this amendment
family structures shall be free
we’ll have the right to civil union
it takes unions of all kinds
unions of hearts and minds
to give society communion
let’s do more than tolerate
let gay and straight resonate
and emanate all things human
with equal rights and
equal protection
intolerance finally ruined

(nearly complete lyrics available here.)

I’ve been ragey this week.

Monday I read this article about a woman who has made it her mission to break the code of silence about sexual assaults on college campuses in the United States. A woman was raped and when she took her complaint to the Sexual Assault board “administrators offered mediation as an option and warned her that if she spoke about her case publicly, she– the victim– could face expulsion for an Honor Code violation.” Excuse me, but what is there to MEDIATE? She was raped, she wasn’t in a fight with her suite mate over whose turn it was to vacuum. Oh, and she couldn’t talk about it. I hate the code of silence.

Then there was this article about a fraternity at the University of Vermont sending out a survey to its members asking them if they could rape someone, who would it be? I…I…I don’t even have words for this. The frat has been suspended, but you know what? I could give a crap about the frat. I want the boys who did this to hear the stories of women who have been raped. I don’t want them to talk, or to defend, justify or minimize their actions. I want them to sit down for a week and do nothing but read the experiences of rape. Of having your body stolen from you by someone who believes they are entitled to it. I want them to understand, so viscerally, that rape is dehumanizing, it is asserting domain over someone else’s body, and it is violent. That it is NOT having sex. That is is NOT no big deal. That is is NOT something to make light of. Ever.  Rape culture wins again.


So it was nice to end the week with this great interview with Ani over at No Depression. Go read.

Enjoy your weekend!


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Feminist Friday – Ani DiFranco – 1992

What if no one’s watching

… i always feel i have to
take a stand
and there’s always someone on hand
to hate me for standing there
i always feel i have to open my mouth
and every time i do
i offend someone somewhere

you know i can’t apologize
for everything i know
i mean you don’t have to agree with me
but once you get me going
you better just let me go
we have to be able to criticize
what we love
to say what we have to say
’cause if you’re not trying
to make something better
then as far as i’m concerned
you are just in the way


My mood is matching the grey, cold day outside my windows today. I think Lucy has another tumor on her head; she has an appointment with the vet this afternoon. And kidlet has another rash. This one completely different from the one he had a few weeks ago. He went to the doctor on Wednesday and the doctor sort of scratched his head and said, “Let’s watch it. Call me on Friday.” It’s Friday. Rash got worse. I know rashes can drag you down the biggest diagnostic rabbit hole, but I hate hearing, “Well…let’s watch it.” I hate feeling like there is something wrong with my kid. And I wish I had an instinct that said, “He’s just kind of a funny little kid who gets the weird viruses,” or one that said, “He’s got some underlying autoimmune condition, chase this until you get an answer.” Instead I sit here and wonder if this is ‘normal.’ I feel like I did back in January, wondering what the hell is going on.

We have a birthday party to go to tomorrow, kidlet’s two best friends will be there. And one of my very best friends in the world is coming tomorrow night for a few days. Things will look up. What are you all doing this weekend?


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Feminist Friday – Tracy Chapman


I’ve had this song in my head for a few weeks now, for what I think are semi-obvious reasons. I loved the song when it first came out – really, I loved the whole album. I think it might have been one of the first CDs my parents bought. (I actually still have it. It’s, shockingly, survived over a dozen moves. I’m really careful about my CDs and books.)

I’m hosting a pumpkin carving party this weekend! With adults, and children! And it might snow tomorrow! So we’ll be crammed like sardines cozily ensconced  in our little house.  Kidlet’s excited. I told him who was coming and he’s been reciting the guest list to me for the last few days. Good times will be had by all!

What are your Halloween weekend plans? Anything spooktacular? (Couldn’t resist.)

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Feminist Friday – Annie Lennox

Lennox wrote a HuffPo piece last year, “Reclaiming Feminism”

Despite the fact that half of the world’s population is female, women’s rights have become marginalized as a “minority issue.” Many young women feel that the label of “feminist” is, at best, irrelevant to their lives and, at worst, a stigma to be avoided at all costs. Sullied by stereotypes of hairy, arm-pitted man haters, the concept of feminism and its principles of equality and anti-sexism need to be refreshed and reclaimed by a new generation. Feminism shouldn’t be an F word. We should embrace it.

Which pretty much sums up my thoughts – EMBRACE FEMINISM.

Happy Friday, ya’ll!

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Feminist Friday – 1996

For the last few months I’ve been doing Flashback Fridays, which originally started because I came across a picture of myself that I thought was too cute not to share. Some of them included a picture and some music, and then they eventually stopped including pictures and became solely music. And then it occurred to me that most of the music (actually, I think all of it) I post is by women. So I figured the post was due for a name change. I’m a proud feminist, and most of the music I listen to, and love, reflects that.

I listened to this album a hundred million times when it came out.


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